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INTERESTS & HOBBIES

Television:

Doctor Who
Orphan Black
Orange Is The New Black
Archer
Bob’s Burgers
Legend of Aang/Korra
The Walking Dead
Fullmetal Alchemist
Community
Metalocalypse
Broad City
Dead Like Me
How I Met Your Mother
Spongebob Squarepants
Parks and Recreation
Cougar Town
Sense8
Steven Universe
Charmed
Jessica Jones
Mr. Robot
Call The Midwife
Project Runway

This Is Us

Smallville

THE FACTS

Current Geographical Residence: Wellington, New Zealand
Birthday: November 4th 1994
Gender: Non-binary, genderless, they/them pronouns, Mx title
Height: 167cm Weight: 70kg

Diet: Ovo-Lacto Vegetarian (but don't care what others eat)
Favorite Colour(s): Lime Green, Purple
Favourite Movies: The Cornetto Trilogy, Labyrinth, Matilda, Baby Driver
Favourite Books: Diary of Anne Frank, Molly Moon series, Milly Molly Mandy series, Danny, the Champion of the World
Most used phrase: ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Favorite Beverage: Bubble Tea
Favorite Food: Sour Skittles, Fruit Leather, Mac & Cheese
Dream Wedding: small family only ceremony, big reception
Dream Job: game developer/designer, miniature sculptor

Zodiac Sign: Scorpio
Myers-Briggs: ISTJ
Rosenberg Self Esteem Scale:19/30
Brain Lateralization Test: Left Hemisphere

People/Celebrities:

Game Grumps
JonTron
Nerdy Nummies
Cr1tikal

Movies/Documentaries:

Three Flavours Cornetto Trilogy
Matilda
Labyrinth
Scott Pilgrim vs. The World
Lemony Snicket’s A Series of Unfortunate Events
Pacific Rim
Girl, Interrupted
Surrogates

Dear Zachary: A Letter to a Son about his Father

Baby Driver

Music:

The Clash
Foo Fighters
Guns & Roses
INXS
Metallica
Tame Impala
Muse
Radiohead
Gorillaz
Red Hot Chilli Peppers
The Mars Volta
Nirvana
Dethklok
Korpiklanni
Alestorm
Starbomb
Ninja Sex Party

System Of A Down

Little Big

Games:

Dungeons & Dragons

Zombicide

Cards Against Humanity

Betrayal at House on the Hill

Fallout (1,2,3,4)
Dungeon Keeper
Theme Hospital
Sims (1,2,3)
Portal (1,2)
Second Life
Super Meat Boy
Icewind Dale
Baldur’s Gate
Left 4 Dead (1,2)
Path of Exile
Jagged Alliance 2: Wildfire
DreadOut
The Last of Us
Euro Truck Simulator 2
Neverwinter Nights
Lethal League
Hand of Fate
Rocket League
Fight The Dragon
Super Motherload
Stonehearth
911 Operator

Food/Drink:

Macaroni & Cheese
Bubble Tea
Ginger Beer
Pulpy Orange Juice
Pavlova
Meringues
Fruit Leather

QUESTION TIME

Why are you so open about [X]?
I have aspergers. I have no filter. I say what’s in my head. If it seriously makes you uncomfortable, let me know bluntly (but not rudely). I don’t pick up on social cues so I need to be told straight up about stuff. I will try to tone stuff down.

Why don’t you care that people talk badly about you?
I just think it's funny (and a little sad) that someone can spend 2 whole hours talking badly about me with their friends when I don’t give them a single thought in return.

When’s your birthday?
4th November 1994, but I don’t celebrate it, so please leave me alone to sleep when it comes around.

What does nonbinary/genderless mean?
Nonbinary is not fitting into the binary genders of Male or Female.
Gender identities and labels are a bit vague but for me personally, being genderless just means I don't fit into anything. I'm not called anything. I'm just me, them, Pam.

Why don’t you have eyebrows or eyelashes?
I suffer from a form of OCD called Trichotillomania. It is a compulsion to pluck hair. Different sufferers pluck different hair. I have stopped on my eyebrows but due to other health problems they are not growing back at this time.

What health problems do you have?

  • Aspergers (more of a blessing actually), explanation: "It depends on the severity. For me and for most it removes the filter between the brain and the mouth. I just say what's in my head, no filter to ask "is that insensitive, inappropriate, something personal". I also say things when the person of discussion is in earshot and don't consider consequences. I don't understand social cues like flirting, people being uncomfortable, people being mad. That being said, I SOMETIMES pick up on it if I know them really well but I never know why. I don't understand if people don't want me around for example, so I stay around, making the problem worse. I need to be told. I'm very disconnected socially. It's not that I don't like it or I'm not good at it I'm just not "in tune" I guess. Then theres the non-social side. I have habits and routines. Where OCDers can't function unless they do something, like lock the door 3 times, Aspies can do something different it just makes them ill, uncomfortable, stressed out, literally have a panic attack if its bad enough. I walk a certain route to every place, I walk on footpaths on the left because that's how cars do it (and I merge and overtake like a car too). I drink tapioca THEN popping boba. I watch Game Grumps before anything else on the computer."

  • Anxiety (currently controlled)

  • Depression (currently controlled)

  • Eczema (currently controlled)

  • Topical Steroid Withdrawal (healed as of Oct '2016)

  • Scoliosis

  • Trichotillomania/phagia

  • Restless Leg Syndrome

  • Insomnia

  • Dyscalculia

  • Maladaptive Daydreaming

  • Eye Floaters

last update: 26-Oct-2019

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