Why are you so open about [X]?
I have aspergers. I have no filter. I say what’s in my head. If it seriously makes you uncomfortable, let me know bluntly (but not rudely). I don’t pick up on social cues so I need to be told straight up about stuff. I will try to tone stuff down.

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Why don’t you care that people talk badly about you?
I just think it's funny (and a little sad) that someone can spend 2 whole hours talking badly about me with their friends when I don’t give them a single thought in return.

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When’s your birthday?
4th November 1994, but I don’t celebrate it, so please leave me alone to sleep when it comes around.

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What does nonbinary/genderless mean?
Nonbinary is not fitting into the binary genders of Male or Female.
Gender identities and labels are a bit vague but for me personally, being genderless just means I don't fit into anything. I'm not called anything. I'm just me, them, Pam.

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Why don’t you have eyebrows or eyelashes?
I suffer from a form of OCD called Trichotillomania. It is a compulsion to pluck hair. Different sufferers pluck different hair. I have stopped on my eyebrows but due to other health problems they are not growing back at this time.

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What health problems do you have?

• Aspergers (more of a blessing actually), explanation: "It depends on the severity. For me and for most it removes the filter between the brain and the mouth. I just say what's in my head, no filter to ask "is that insensitive, inappropriate, something personal". I also say things when the person of discussion is in earshot and don't consider consequences. I don't understand social cues like flirting, people being uncomfortable, people being mad. That being said, I SOMETIMES pick up on it if I know them really well but I never know why. I don't understand if people don't want me around for example, so I stay around, making the problem worse. I need to be told. I'm very disconnected socially. It's not that I don't like it or I'm not good at it I'm just not "in tune" I guess. Then theres the non-social side. I have habits and routines. Where OCDers can't function unless they do something, like lock the door 3 times, Aspies can do something different it just makes them ill, uncomfortable, stressed out, literally have a panic attack if its bad enough. I walk a certain route to every place, I walk on footpaths on the left because that's how cars do it (and I merge and overtake like a car too). I drink tapioca THEN popping boba. I watch Game Grumps before anything else on the computer."

• Anxiety (currently controlled)

• Depression (currently controlled)

• Eczema (currently controlled)

• Topical Steroid Withdrawal (healed as of Oct '2016)

• Scoliosis

• Trichotillomania/phagia

• Restless Leg Syndrome

• Insomnia

• Dyscalculia

• Maladaptive Daydreaming

• Eye Floaters