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©2016 by Pamela Howard Autobiograp. Proudly created with Wix.com



Doctor Who
Orphan Black
Orange Is The New Black
Bob’s Burgers
Legend of Aang/Korra
The Walking Dead
Fullmetal Alchemist
Broad City
Dead Like Me
How I Met Your Mother
Spongebob Squarepants
Parks and Recreation
Cougar Town
Steven Universe
Jessica Jones
Mr. Robot
Call The Midwife
Project Runway

This Is Us



Current Geographical Residence: Wellington, New Zealand
Birthday: November 4th 1994
Gender: Non-binary, genderless, they/them pronouns, Mx title
Height: 167cm Weight: 70kg

Diet: Ovo-Lacto Vegetarian (but don't care what others eat)
Favorite Colour(s): Lime Green, Purple
Favourite Movies: The Cornetto Trilogy, Labyrinth, Matilda, Baby Driver
Favourite Books: Diary of Anne Frank, Molly Moon series, Milly Molly Mandy series, Danny, the Champion of the World
Most used phrase: ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
Favorite Beverage: Bubble Tea
Favorite Food: Sour Skittles, Fruit Leather, Mac & Cheese
Dream Wedding: small family only ceremony, big reception
Dream Job: game developer/designer, miniature sculptor

Zodiac Sign: Scorpio
Myers-Briggs: ISTJ
Rosenberg Self Esteem Scale:19/30
Brain Lateralization Test: Left Hemisphere


Game Grumps
Nerdy Nummies


Three Flavours Cornetto Trilogy
Scott Pilgrim vs. The World
Lemony Snicket’s A Series of Unfortunate Events
Pacific Rim
Girl, Interrupted

Dear Zachary: A Letter to a Son about his Father

Baby Driver


The Clash
Foo Fighters
Guns & Roses
Tame Impala
Red Hot Chilli Peppers
The Mars Volta
Ninja Sex Party

System Of A Down

Little Big


Dungeons & Dragons


Cards Against Humanity

Betrayal at House on the Hill

Fallout (1,2,3,4)
Dungeon Keeper
Theme Hospital
Sims (1,2,3)
Portal (1,2)
Second Life
Super Meat Boy
Icewind Dale
Baldur’s Gate
Left 4 Dead (1,2)
Path of Exile
Jagged Alliance 2: Wildfire
The Last of Us
Euro Truck Simulator 2
Neverwinter Nights
Lethal League
Hand of Fate
Rocket League
Fight The Dragon
Super Motherload
911 Operator


Macaroni & Cheese
Bubble Tea
Ginger Beer
Pulpy Orange Juice
Fruit Leather


Why are you so open about [X]?
I have aspergers. I have no filter. I say what’s in my head. If it seriously makes you uncomfortable, let me know bluntly (but not rudely). I don’t pick up on social cues so I need to be told straight up about stuff. I will try to tone stuff down.

Why don’t you care that people talk badly about you?
I just think it's funny (and a little sad) that someone can spend 2 whole hours talking badly about me with their friends when I don’t give them a single thought in return.

When’s your birthday?
4th November 1994, but I don’t celebrate it, so please leave me alone to sleep when it comes around.

What does nonbinary/genderless mean?
Nonbinary is not fitting into the binary genders of Male or Female.
Gender identities and labels are a bit vague but for me personally, being genderless just means I don't fit into anything. I'm not called anything. I'm just me, them, Pam.

Why don’t you have eyebrows or eyelashes?
I suffer from a form of OCD called Trichotillomania. It is a compulsion to pluck hair. Different sufferers pluck different hair. I have stopped on my eyebrows but due to other health problems they are not growing back at this time.

What health problems do you have?

  • Aspergers (more of a blessing actually), explanation: "It depends on the severity. For me and for most it removes the filter between the brain and the mouth. I just say what's in my head, no filter to ask "is that insensitive, inappropriate, something personal". I also say things when the person of discussion is in earshot and don't consider consequences. I don't understand social cues like flirting, people being uncomfortable, people being mad. That being said, I SOMETIMES pick up on it if I know them really well but I never know why. I don't understand if people don't want me around for example, so I stay around, making the problem worse. I need to be told. I'm very disconnected socially. It's not that I don't like it or I'm not good at it I'm just not "in tune" I guess. Then theres the non-social side. I have habits and routines. Where OCDers can't function unless they do something, like lock the door 3 times, Aspies can do something different it just makes them ill, uncomfortable, stressed out, literally have a panic attack if its bad enough. I walk a certain route to every place, I walk on footpaths on the left because that's how cars do it (and I merge and overtake like a car too). I drink tapioca THEN popping boba. I watch Game Grumps before anything else on the computer."

  • Anxiety (currently controlled)

  • Depression (currently controlled)

  • Eczema (currently controlled)

  • Topical Steroid Withdrawal (healed as of Oct '2016)

  • Scoliosis

  • Trichotillomania/phagia

  • Restless Leg Syndrome

  • Insomnia

  • Dyscalculia

  • Maladaptive Daydreaming

  • Eye Floaters

last update: 26-Oct-2019

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